Table manners
Last night I had dinner with someone that considers herself as “classy”. Since “classy” was a big part of how she defined herself, I decided I should take her to a classy restaurant. While she learned to look the part, she failed at the dinner table. (Let’s remember that just because you wear nice clothing and drive an expensive car does not mean you are classy.)
I am not saying I am an expert in this department and I do find myself correcting myself. But, too many people are clueless when it comes to basic table manners. Here are a few basics to remember:
• If someone is buying your meal, be modest when ordering. Don’t order the most expensive thing on the menu (see “Ordering I”).
• Elbows off the table … I know this is basic stuff but some of you have forgotten about this. (Don’t worry … we all catch ourselves putting our elbows on the table.)
• Don’t talk with your mouth full of food.
• Both feet on the floor! Sitting cross-legged or with one foot on another chair maybe OK if you are sitting at home watching TV but not while out on the town or at the dinner table.
• Don’t reach across the table (and across others at the table). If you want the wine bottle that is across the table ask someone to pass it to you.
• Keep your mouth closed when eating.
• Don’t make loud noises when eating (no slurping or munching sounds).
• No stretching.
• Guys, take your hats off.
• Keep your shoes on while at the table!
• Dress for the occasion.
I know these tips may sound basic but some people either are not aware or don’t care. I once took a date to a fancy restaurant. I had stepped away and as I returned to my date I noticed everyone looking towards my table. I was a little embarrassed to find my date loudly munching down her dinner and stretching. This finely dressed woman with her expensive jewelry, perfectly done make-up and hair was even upset when I commented about her stretching (I did not even bother with the loud eating noises). Her comment was “Isn’t this a free country?! Why can’t I do this if this is a free country?!” In this case my date was Asian and mixed up freedom for manners. Don’t make this mistake.
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