Today I got a dirty look from a “lady” after I opened the door for her. I think she was actually offended!
If a am opens a door for you, don’t get offended. By opening the door for you he is not implying you are weak - it is a sign of respect for a lady.
Honestly, there are times when I am holding a door open for a “lady” or “ladies” when I really wish I could lock them out. But, my up bringing says I have to treat women as “ladies” regardless of their social status, their appearance or manners.
Please, the next time someone opens a door for you treat that as a sign of courtesy.
Someone I know has been complaining about the men she is dating. More often than not she complains about the men she does not meet. She does have high expectations and she quickly dumps the guy if he does not meet all of her demanding requirements: he has to make big money, good career, good education and must be fit. What’s wrong with this you ask? She does not meet any of her own requirements so why should she expect that from someone else? I don’t have the heart to tell her that she needs to bring her expectations down to her own level.
I think you first should get to know someone instead of judging them by their appearance or online dating profile. They may not have a big title but they could actually be making good money and enjoying life. You may find that you may actually enjoy spending time with someone that is not obsessed with money and their work.
Along the same lines, I am annoyed or confused by women that consider themselves a “princess” or expect to be treated like a princess but come across more like a wench. If you want to be treated like a “princess” then act like one. Of course, be sure you know what that entails.
